Last Thing I Thought Was I’d Get My Wife Back, But I did With Psychological Tricks
The last thing I thought when I split with her was that I’d get my wife back. But surprisingly (for me) it happened.
I was so distraught I just did not have a clue where to turn. I spent ages looking for articles and stuff to help me get over her but what I came across was info on how to get her back.
I thought this was too good to be true, I rarely fall for this kind of stuff. But I decided to test it out, for the sake of a measly forty bucks.
It came with a few extras and one of them was a report on how psychology works in our lives. It explained how with subtle hints you can almost mind control people.
I immediately connected with some of these psychological tricks. Having used some on my kids when they were just plain stubborn to do something.
We use reverse psychology an awful lot without even knowing. Imaging trying to get a reluctant friend to go to the gym.
They don’t like the idea so you lay a line on them like “if you aren’t physically capable, that’s fine”. They usually return with something like “of course I’m capable, when do we start”.
We played the psychology card here. Using their own pride as the tool against them. These same tricks can be used to get your ex back on track.
I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!
My ex wife called me back within 24 hours and she actually believed it was her that got back in contact. She called to ask how I was doing. Of course it was me that had planned this with the message I left the previous day.
When I left the message, I never once asked her to call me but I was fairly sure she would. I was right as well.
After this it was pretty easy going for us as my wife was convinced she’d made the first move. She hadn’t, I had. But I’m not going to remind her.
There’s me starting out with a view to getting over her. A complete reversal had me looking to get my ex back. And it worked pretty good for me.
Even if it didn’t work for me I would have got my money back and gone out and saw a game!
